THIS IS MY STORY...Â
I’m Samantha (Sami for short!) I am a certified Breakup and Relationship Coach who specializes in healing attachment trauma.Â
I live in Thailand and have been working remotely as a coach for six years. I have a background in social work and currently studying a MSc Trauma-Informed Somatic Leadership & Coaching degree.Â
When I’m not coaching, you’ll either find me on the karaoke, sipping coffee with a good book at home or trekking in the Himalayas in Nepal.
I know what you’re going through...
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For so long, I thought that I was alone in my suffering. Too afraid to tell anyone how I was truly feeling out of fear that I would be judged, shamed, or rejected.Â
Living with this shame kept me trapped.Â
Riding the 'situationship' rollercoaster because I desperately wanted to be chosen. Trapped in pleasing behaviours and putting others before myself. Wondering if I will ever find my person...Â
Truth is - I was operating from a place of low self worth, fear of abandonment and not knowing how to be secure and healthy in a relationship.
This kept me trapped in a toxic, codependent relationship with a manipulative avoidant for 8 years.Â
This lead to me sabotaging a relationship with a secure partner because I was not able to be a healthy, safe partner for them.
After these experiences, I knew something needed to change and I knew that it began with healing the relationship I had with myself... Â
NOW, I'M ON A MISSION!Â
We are a part of a movement of individuals who are fed up of losing themselves in unhealthy relationships and we’re deciding to do it differently. To heal generational and attachment trauma no matter how difficult it is.Â
Because we know we deserve the greatest life and love we could ever imagine in this lifetime.Â
We understand that our pain is our power.
We didn’t have the secure role models we needed growing up. We are the role models.
We don’t look to others to change or fix us, we know that responsibility lies with us.
I want every single human being on this planet to feel safe and secure within themselves and in connection with others.
Because when we heal, we heal the world 🌍
And we’re not meant to heal and do this alone.